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It’s not about the race

  • Writer: Ruth Arless-Frandsen
    Ruth Arless-Frandsen
  • Jul 11, 2021
  • 2 min read

I just competed my second “virtual race”. This was not necessarily a challenging distance for me and virtual racing is not nearly as exciting as the live event, but it’s not about the race.


I was invited to join the team to run and raise funds and awareness about woman‘s mental health.


As I ran today, alone with my thoughts, I vowed not only to walk the walk (or run the run), but I also to talk the talk.


I felt lucky, as I ran, realizing that running had played a huge role in not only allowing me to maintain physical fitness, but also helped immensely with my mental health. When I run, I feel like I can breathe.


Mental health has never been an easy conversation topic, but it has never been a more pressing subject. COVID-19 has wreaked havoc on so many and so many more are suffering silently through the pandemic, not because of the virus, but rather from anxiety, depression and isolation.


We need to start opening up as a society in order to neutralize these silent killers.The system is flawed; wait times and red tape can be obstacles that are too great to surpass.

We need to be there for one another. We need to share stories so the “secret” gets out and there is a call to action.


So to do my part in the call to action and to honour all those who are struggling, be it with a diagnosed mental illness or just going through a rough patch, I ask you all to reach out to someone you care about. Ask them if you can do something to ease their burden. Go fo walk with them. If the need more than just a friendly shoulder to cry on or a cup of tea, make the call for them. The system can slam so many doors in your face and when you are struggling, these obstacles can be paralyzing.

To my friends, please know if you need me, I will gladly hold your cup for you. I will make the call. I will help you find the way. I will shine the light on your path, so you can see your way.


That, my friends, is Grit&Grace. 💪🏻❤️



 
 
 

12 Comments


hnorby6
Jul 13, 2021

Ruth,

Our history is long and I know that you have been there for myself and my children in some of my darkest moments. I am forever grateful that no matter how much time has passed, we can pick up where we left off. You are grit and grace without a doubt! Xoxo

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Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Jul 13, 2021
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Awww Helen 🥰 You have shown your fair share of Grit and Grace! You will always hold a special place in my heart - our families have always been there for each other, through the good times and the bad.

Love you ❤️


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secpolovina
Jul 13, 2021

So proud to be your friend of over 40 years. Ruthie you exemplify grit and grace and your strength and determination is unmatched. I am so happy to see you pen your thoughts to continue to inspire and motivate! ❤️⭐️❤️ Love you!!!

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Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Jul 13, 2021
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Awww Samos - we’ve come a long way since A&B! 😊

Thanks for staying connected and being such an important part of my entourage. I am drawn to people who exemplify Grit and Grace - and you are no exception! You inspire me I’m so many ways, including by your writing. Love you ❤️

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hammondfamily
Jul 13, 2021

You were there for me by suggesting some amazing chair workouts after I broke my ankle…that was a lifesaver. A month ago I injured the same darn leg and I‘ve had to rest my leg until this week. Your chair workout was revived once again to save my mental sanity. Thank you for not letting me wallow and inspiring me to keep moving!

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Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Jul 13, 2021
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Wow - Thanks Laura! I am very touched by your words and message. Glad I could help inspire. ❤️ Sorry to hear you injured you leg again - hope it’s a speedy recovery, but in the meantime, rock those arm jumping jacks! ;)


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livballet101
Jul 13, 2021

Proud to be called your daughter. Thank you for your wisdom and strength. Forever grateful❤️ Olivia

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Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Jul 13, 2021
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Thanks Peanut - big compliment from such an important person in my life! ❤️

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saracarlevaris
Jul 13, 2021

You are an inspiration of not only 'Grit&Grace' but you are a friend who has been and is there whenever we need help or company along our own paths. Thank you. 😘

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Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Ruth Arless-Frandsen
Jul 13, 2021
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Thank-you dear friend - who has been a witness to so much of my Grit&Grace - for being such a constant in my life❤️

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